Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Yikes, fabulous and chicly poor!

Ah- I remember why I love the song- 'The lady is a Tramp so much!"
Such a perfect song- and even in the song- it is noticed "she's broke'
So, you can be a lady, broke, fun, exciting and now even over 40!
I think- truly, this not wearing the same dress again, or at the same time as someone else is truly childish- if you are that concerned about those sorts of things- ensure you have a personal style and accessorize then you will never look like someone else! .
But above all- I think- thin thighs, great skin, hair, nails and teeth are truly the sign of wealth and being well cared for.
So- exercise---diet alone does not work!! You must work out=- at least 1/2 hour every day- better 1 1/2---
Moisturize your skin esp. in the harsh winter weather, Vaseline on feet and hands at night- sock and gloves- humidifier beside your bed.
Moisturize you hair and leave in all Sunday- rinse out Monday morning- keeps it bright, shiny and controls the fly-aways.
Sleep and water- lots of both......
and oh yes- you can wear last years clothes if you look good underneath.
I do not understand why so many women feel they can and should hide behind expensive clothes and jewels and do not take care of the basics, their hair, skin and body!!!
Sorry ladies, but you look OLDER- with expensive clothes and are out of shape with uncared for hair, skin and nails..... you are not fooling anyone.
BUT, you can look rich and fab in last years clothes if you are vibrant and full of energy!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

poverty chic-staying fab

Since, many folks are now in the boat I have been for awhile- I feel a tad like the older sister ( easy on the pun there) where at least I can help some of my new 'poverty chic' sisters into my midst and perhaps offer some survival tips.
1) You do not need the newest duds every season- stick with your staples and add drama- if you like drama- if you like being a 'beige' person then don add any fun drama!
2) Always--- ALWAYS- take care of your skin- do not scrimp here- go without the clothes- manicure yourself at home- eat Metamucil for weeks-( you will be regular and thin, full- and after your body gets used to it not bloated--) anything you need to do - keep the skin looking fab!
3) Smile and excellent posture- sorry but it is true- you should never leave the house without putting your smile on-- and excellent posture always makes even the least expensive outfit look great 'cause you look rich under it!

hmmm- judging look after 40

Gentlemen, you can respond for free here and there is a tad of a conundrum.......
One that many of you have faced before- me never really faced it as due to my shallow nature if a man was not appealing to me in a physical way- I just simply and swiftly passed him over.
That has left me single- however do not assume that makes me lonely or desperate- actually I enjoy my singledom as I detest having any man tell me what to do, when, how or why.....
Hence good thing I am single- in my own defense though I have had the 'husband' from hell- raised the child from downunder- and now I simply enjoy some peace from the onslaught of men controlling behaviour.
Yes, I know there are some fabulous men out there- and to my saving grace some of them are my friends- so thank you......
BUT-- what does one do when they meet a person of the opposite gender that appreciates and enjoys the same activities, they make you laugh, they...
are smart, funny, in control, confident- have their 'shit' together--- and yes even are financially stable- even in this economy........
but what do you do if they are in shape--- fit....... and honestly ...... just not attractive?
I know this is a common problem but truly how shallow are we?
If we had all taken the one -or two people we have met in our lives that actually compliment us =aside from their genetic blessed exteriors (to which they simply inherited and in no way 'earned' the way they look)if we simply took up with the people we actually like- would this world not be a better place and with far less single folks (again, not that being single is bad)
Any advice-- and have any of you 'settled' with not as a stellar looking partner-- but would not change them for anything- and finally are happy?

New poverty chic

Poverty chic---
aha- finally something I have the opportunity to be on the leading edge of.
How to get around looking chic on a penny- and an old one at that!
Things have already been lightened up for me so much- for so long I would watch the huge houses, the clothes, the cars, the vacations and wonder where do these people get all their money?
Yes, indeed the last few years have been like getting my doctorate in life- (poor and way too much learning curve) but it appears my doctorate in life may serve me well now.
I have long given up judging folks by their money, possessions, even their education and instead have a great admiration for those that have been mired in struggles.
It would seem now that the graciousness of kindness, creativity, hard work, surviving with grace under pressure and new-found poverty may make the masses a much kinder, gentler and even tempered lot once they too realize-- we are not what we own but who we are that makes us special in our own ways.
Poverty can actually increase our sense of self- open new doors to find our own values and inner - harmony - and those open doors can let out the negativity of ego based ideals

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

diets and exercise

unfortunately when our metabolism decides we hit that peri-menopause state and rather quickly shuts down on us--- there is little we can do that is easy to stay in those slinky little clothes!
Exercise is a must- regardless of how little or what you eat.... say an hour on the treadmill every day!
I am also sad to say but it appears on me anyway that 2 glasses of wine= 3-5 pounds that take at least 5-7 days to get rid of.
We may just have to become green tea tottlers to try to stay in shape- nevermind the headaches that even 2 glasses of good red wine cause!

Saturday, November 15, 2008

winter skin-part two


Please write more about how to keep skin looking young." Or, "What can I do to keep my skin from drying up like an old prune during the winter months?"
I receive many requests like these asking me to write about medical problems. But whenever I write about skin care, the response dwarfs other mail. So here's what a prestigious clinic says about aging skin.
Mayo Clinic doctors don't bother to soften the truth of how we gradually lose our baby-soft "body glove" in which we were born.
Their studies show that our oil producing glands become less active and blood vessels decrease leaving us with thinner, fragile and finely wrinkled skin.
But four habits will help to keep some of that youthful colour and glow.
Habit 1: Protect yourself from the sun. It's the invisible, intense ultraviolet light that causes damage to skin leaving deep wrinkles, rough dry skin and liver spots. It's lifetime exposure that counts and this may also cause benign and malignant growths.
Remember that only "mad dogs and Englishmen go out in the noonday sun". But Mayo Clinic doctors suggest that when you do, wear long sleeves and tightly woven fabrics such as denim rather than knits.
Today you can also buy protective (SPF) clothing that blocks out ultraviolet rays.
Habit 2: Stop smoking! A study from Oxford University shows smoking decreases your time on this planet by 20 years!
In addition, your skin won't look as good when you enter the pearly gates! Years of smoking will have narrowed tiny blood vessels in the skin, robbing it of oxygen and nutrients such as vitamin A. This also increases damage to elastic fibers and collagen which give the skin strength and elasticity.
Mayo physicians raise another interesting point about smoking - by pursing your lips when inhaling and squinting your eyes when exhaling to keep out the smoke, you contribute to wrinkles. And that the heat from cigarettes damages the skin over the years.
In fact they say these changes can happen in just 10 years of puffing on cigarettes.
Habit 3: Wash all body skin with tender loving care. This means short baths and showers with warm water, not hot water. Not good news for me and others who prefer long, hot showers.
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Mayo Clinic also advises against strong soaps that strip oil from your skin leaving it dry. It suggests mild ones or detergent substitutes which contain added oils and fats. The good choices are Cliniderm, Dove, Cetaphil and Purpose.
Stay clear of soap additives such as perfumes and dyes which can irritate skin and also cause an allergic reaction.
If you're wearing makeup use a soft sponge or cotton balls to remove it. And for heavy, waterproof makeup you need oil-based products such as Aquaphor or petrolatum jelly.
Finally, be sure to pat dry your skin with a soft towel. All of this is time consuming, of course, so I assume this is why more men end up with prune faces than women.
Habit 4: In real estate the slogan for success is "location, location, location." The secret for skin care is moisturize, moisturize, moisturize to prevent winter itch and leather-like skin. Over-heated homes, carpets, fireplaces and furniture all suck moisture out of the air. One study showed the average home is as dry as the Sahara Desert! It's no wonder that so many people complain of dry, flaky and sometimes red skin.
Mayo doctors don't mention any specific moisturizers. But there are two excellent lotions, Reversa and Neostrata which contain glycolic acid (AHA), a natural derivative of sugar cane. Research shows that these lotions not only moisturize but improve the top layer of the skin (stratum corneum) thereby sealing and locking in moisture to smooth and soften the skin.
Dr. Suzanne Gagnon, a prominent Montreal dermatologist, advises that for maximum effect Reversa or Neostrata lotion should be applied to dry skin. She reminds us that all parts of the body need moisture, especially where the stratum corneum is thick like the elbows, knees and feet. And remember that soft feet don't tear nylons.
So moisturize, moisturize, and did I say moisturize?
The products she recommends are products I have used, they are moderate in price and also came to me via my dermatologist- remember the home humidifier as well!

Makeup for 'experienced women'




Hi!
Hope you are all doing well.
Today some make-up ideas
Georgio Armani Luminous Silk Foundation a fantastic cover, light, non-acne causing makeup.
I like this one for the day as it feels and looks like nothing is on your skin- remember though a good primer is always vital- I recommend the matching Fluid Sheer from the same line. You may have to order this through Holt Renfrew- or from Vegas- but it is worth it.
For more formal coverage but still elegant I like the primer and makeup from Chanel Vitalumiere line- again light and offer more coverage that the Georgio Armani but I cannot wear it everyday as I will break out- so I keep this one on hand for those special days when you want to look extra fab!
Evening makeup- calls for more coverage and perfection! To this end I keep Laura Mercier and the matching primer on hand.... this is a heavier coverage and makes you look PERFECT- but you do look like you have a makeup on- so I keep this one in the back of the vanity for special dates, the theatre anything where perfection is desired--